FAMILY COLORS

 One of the best skills you can get as a married person is the skill that enables you to argue or conflict with your spouse and still stay friends.  The benchmark you must apply is respect. When you have differences in opinion and you apply respect all through the process of decision making, you will have the best. Conflict enables you to have the best decision and with this skill added the spouse still remains your friend after the process.  Listen to this and let us have your opinion and Wm experience on whether it works 

 Joint accounting and joint account are different! In joint account the couples have a common account and they draw from it in accordance with their decisions. But in joint accounting they don’t have a common account but they are accountable to each other!  Which works better?  Let’s hear from you!

 Every family has a culture! Cultures a that speak well of the family and thrives and those that bring the family into opprobrium!  You have the privilege to invest your time and energy to choose which of the cultures you can invest in that can take your family to the heights.  Don’t think that good families grow by luck. They don’t. Someone invested and continued investing.  It’s your turn. It’s your time.  Invest now.  Keep investing. 

 Experiences make us happier than things we own! This is proven with several statistically significant outcomes. When you volunteer, you gain experiences and the fact that you are serving and helping people adds to make you a better and happier person.  Volunteering exposes you to the needs of others and the fact that you can help them out of it.  Opportunities come out for you when you volunteer and this further opens up horizons for you. Don’t miss the next opportunity to volunteer.  It’s a gold mine that you have been avoiding. Make sure to volunteer at least thrice a year to any cause.  Give it your best shot and you will be shocked at the payoff. 

 It’s true! Let’s discuss it. Marriage actually makes you richer. The single you will never be richer than the married you except you are not doing your marriage well.  Most of what we avoid in marriage are actually the things that make marriage put money in our pockets.  We avoid conflicts. We avoid differences. We avoid refusals. We avoid discussions. We don’t want to lose yet it is that loss that redirects us and helps us not to enter into financial troubles and struggles.  Conflicts help us make the best decisions.  Conflicts are actually positive things.  Just make sure you fight fair. 

 

  FIVE THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER SAY TO YOUR SPOUSE A friend of mine sent me this - If you’ve been married for any length of time, you’ve probably learned that there are certain things that a husband should never say to his wife. It was funny to hear about marital strife when you were single, but now you know firsthand how uncomfortable a night alone on the couch can be.  Here are five things you should definitely avoid saying to your wife if you value your mortal existence 😁. 1. “You’re not that old.” A woman is never old – not a lot, not a little. Even if she openly admits to being ancient, and her skin hangs in drapes from her sagging bones, to you she is always young and beautiful, and you’d better tell her so. 2. “Woman, make me a sandwich!” Even when used in jest, this is a phrase that is much more likely to get a sandwich smashed into your face 😁than presented nicely on a plate with a pickle and a side of chips. 3. “Can you come over here and help me find the tip of my ...

 Your act of marriage is dependent on the person to whom you defer to, in the definition of marriage! Who do you defer to? You cannot run your marriage outside the person you define marriage from. It becomes important to correctly define marriage from the perspective of He that created marriage - God  Watch to correctly define marriage and act appropriately! 

This is the reason why spousal abuse is perpetuated across even generations.  We can break the vicious circle!