#SensibleConflicts


#SensibleConflicts are what every couple should focus on achieving in their relationships rather than no conflicts.

To achieve #NoConflicts, one or both partners must become almost a vegetable and always accept what the other person says and does at all times. Now this is not favorable to the union because the quality of their decisions will definitely fall. Differences among couples help them to source good quality decisions and follow through for the good of the union. 

When they spend all their time trying not to conflict, they are more likely going to let down their guards and take horrible decisions, just so as not to conflict.

#SensibleConflicts will rather teach you to know how to make conflicts work for you. It tells you what to do and what not to do during conflicts. It thereby reduces the sting or conflicts as well as encourages couples to make use of their differences in taking good decisions for their families.

Good families always encourage the skilled partner is any area of life to take the lead, but when any conflicts arise, coupes must use standard guidelines to resolve it.

Watch the doodly video clip above and learn!

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