IN WISDOM, BE AN ADULT; BUT IN MALICE, BE A CHILD - ALWAYS LISTEN TO THE CHILD IN YOU!


Look again at this picture and you will connect with it. Never allow the ego in you to cast a covering over the child in you. 
Two adults (a husband and a wife) might finish quarreling and they are lying on the bed and frowning and refusing to talk to each other. Each person is asking in his or her heart, 'why should I be the one to apologize or reconnect discussions? (Who can relate?)

But right inside their hearts are two children who want to 'cut it off' and get back to playing together once again. 😁
Always remember this child in you and make sure you don't stifle it with the evil ego in you. Listen to the merry voice of that child. God always gives us options to wriggle out of bad conditions we always put ourselves in!

ALWAYS LISTEN TO THE LITTLE CHILD IN YOU!

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