WHAT ARE YOU MODELING IN YOUR MARRIAGE?


 WHAT ARE YOU MODELING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE? 

It’s amazing how many people believe that relationship or marriage is by luck! Meaning that ‘whatever will be will be’ So they stretch their legs and depend on one ‘god of luck’

NOT SO! Your marriage and relationships are not by luck. You dig the foundation, set up the props, lay the cement and eventually raise up the blocks, roof it and furnish the building.  

You might have some inputs from your family of origin but then ....just excerpts! 

The main bulk of what you get in marriage is dependent on what you did, said, didn’t say or didn’t do! And that’s a fact

Today, a decision can be made that will turn around your marriage for good. No one can make that decision for you. 

Let this passage chart a course for you. Watch the clip up!

Proverbs 24:3-4

Through wisdom a house is built,

And by understanding it is established;

By knowledge the rooms are filled

With all precious and pleasant riches.

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